Blessed
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IMDB rating: 4.10 Plot: Heather Graham and James Purefoy play a couple who desperately want to have a baby. Unfortunately, she has been diagnosed as infertile, and the couple can’t afford the medical treatments that might allow her to conceive. Good fortune appears to be smiling on the couple when they are given an opportunity to receive free treatments at a mysterious fertility clinic. The woman is soon the expectant mother of twins, but as her due date draws nearer, she begins to suspect something is wrong, and that she has become the unwilling victim of a pact with evil. |
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Actors: Purefoy James,Mckenna Alan,Reynolds Michael J.,Hootkins William,Serkis Andy,Hemmings David,Drama,Thriller,Horror,
My boyfriend thinks the Holidays are meaningless?!?
My boyfriend usually works every holiday and so do i. But this year i feel we should make sure to make it count since that is what it is about. To me Thanksgiving is a great way to reflect on one’s blessings and really remember how much you love your family, spouse, etc…We live together and none of our family is here, so you would think it would mean that much more to really be thankful we have a lover we can enjoy this season with. And yet, my best friend invited me to go to another nearby state to sightsee and hang out. We always wanted to go and yet I thought maybe it would be wrong since this is Thanksgiving and i do not want my man to be alone. But when i asked him about his feeling on me going away, he said
"I dont care. I am going to be working. Holidays really don’t mean anything to me except getting paid overtime. So do what you want. I am just going to be working"
BUT, he is coming home at 6 pm and we could at least have dinner!
It hurt me that after 3 years of not celebrating the holidays, that he would not even want to spend ONE with me and see how beautiful and special it is especially when you live with the woman you love and she is all you got? I would have felt normal if he said "Awww. I really want you to stay and want to see you on this day, but do what you want". BUT he did not say that.
I am mad now at him and feel like he could care less if i was in his life or not. He says he will miss me a little, but that he will be working and that holidays are not a big deal. but to me, life is unpredictable and maybe he or I could be gone tomorrow and would we not regret we did not cherish special moments like the holidays together??
How should I react? Should I cook a dinner and try to evoke warm and loving feelings so he can see how nice it feels to celebrate the holidays instead of letting them pass us by? OR, should i say "screw him for not caring’ and go with my friend to vacation? I have been stuck in this house by the way from not having a job and he recently hurt me a lot emotionally (long story) and he apologized for it and wanted to work on being a better boyfriend and appreciating me more.
Shouldn’t being excited to be together on the holidays count?? OR should i get over it and accept he thinks nothing of them and sit in silence every year as we do nothing? I was poor as a kid and went through an abusive childhood so i do not take my blessings for granted and am thankful and feel Thanksgiving and XMAS are great ways to be thankful for the love and good in our life, even if I am not rich or whatever. My bf was a kid who grew up like the Brady Bunch and had love and materials whenever he needed them. He does not know what it is like to suffer and then finally have a better life and be appreciative. He is so used to having a good life that i think he is taking me and his blessings for granted (he is like this with me in other ways too, being emotionally blank in other ways like in romance and stuff). I think he is taking me (his blessing and Xmas gift of love!) for granted don’t you think? What should I do?
Strange! I was initially thinking that maybe it was just how he was raised, but it looks like it’s just him.
Since he’s like this with a lot of things & doesn’t really treat you right romantically, I’m starting to think that perhaps you should find some other guy. Your boyfriend will never be able to give you what you NEED romantically, let alone what you want in the holiday situation. This doesn’t mean that he’s a jerk or anything, but it does mean that you two aren’t compatible in the ways you need to be in order to have a good relationship. Try & work on it, although after 3 years of this I don’t know if you can.
And remember- this is how he is BEFORE you two are married. This is supposed to be when he’s at his most attentive. Can you imagine what he’ll be like further on down the road?
Octopus Pie | Nov 24, 2009
